El Jadida, Morocco - Do you ever question the reason why you’ve been dumped by the love of your life? Do you always blame yourself for your last break up? Have you lost hope in long term relations?
If your answer is “yes” to any of the aforementioned questions, then you are in the right place. In this article I’ll suggest four reasons why people dump their partners and I’ll suggest some of the solutions to avoid being dumped.
1- Making the Wrong Choice:
Is it birds of the same feather flock together or the opposite attracts that creates your chemical bond with your partner? As long as the two of you are not two facets of the same coin, complementing each other, each of you will pull the other to his or her side. Moreover, when you are not physically and emotionally available to each other, nothing remains to bridge the gap between the two of you. Thus, you can’t avoid the inevitable break up.
2- Fear of Commitment:
Once questions about where our relation is heading pop up, things take a serious path. If you haven’t defined and agreed about the nature of your relation beforehand, once one of you decides to take things to the next level, the other will recoil in fear. So, before you decide to feather your nest of marriage, make sure that it’s the right time, and use a smooth method to pave the way to a consensus in favor of such a decisive decision without freaking out your partner.
3- Fear of Rejection:
It is true that your present is the result of your past, and not everybody had had a successful past before they embarked on a new relation. Some people’s successive attempts in finding true love might have ended tragically. If your partner is one of those people with a tragic love history, they will bring it back to your relation; and thus, as a defense mechanism they will leave before they are left, it is their method of taking revenge from their ex-partners. Such people may have low self-esteem and great lack of self-confidence, no matter how much you push them into believing that you’ll be there for them, once the slightest storm strikes they are gone.
4- Monotony:
Do you find yourself interested and excited during the first stages of your relation, suddenly things get boring, you no longer talk as much as you used to do, you no longer have the fun you used to have? This is simply the result of monotony and routine. It’s quite challenging to keep your relation alive without investing lots of time and effort in it. Thus, to keep the flicker of love ablaze, you should try new things with your partner; try to change or re-arrange their schedules, go to places you haven’t been to before, that will pump fresh blood in your relation.
All in all, bearing in mind all of the previously mentioned reasons will equip you with an understanding of why things happen. That way, you can recognize them when they occur and take the necessary steps to get over them with the least ramifications.
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